Attraction: A fatal law


"You love me, you love me not? You told me once, but I forgot."
 
Attraction is a very dangerous thing. It's confusing and killing. It gives the illusion of love but is like a poisonous b*tch with rabies.

You get enthralled every single time. When you are attracted to someone you tend to ignore all the bad things about that person. That person is the most perfect human on the face of earth. But guess what, NOBODY is perfect!

The worst part is that when it ends, you regret it like a really bad hangover. Then you start realizing all the mistakes on your part and theirs and that will bitter all the memories that you ever made.

Now, I feel like an ol' fat granny, telling you this, but I indeed have unearthed a cure for it. It is simple to the ears, but hard to implement. Just be yourself! Ta-da! Really, it's that simple. All you need to do is that don't change the person you are when you are with that person. Treat that person just the way you would treat another person.

Don't blindly judge them to be good and perfect for you but make sure that they are the ones who will stick around if push comes to shove. I mean what's the point in liking a guy or a girl who can't even accept your friendship or whatever it is, with pride in front of others and cowers out saying, "Nah man! It's just time pass." and then starts distancing themselves from you in public but be able to accept that you people are something.

God! I hate such people who are just out there wondering why they are not getting the guy or girl they are attracted to when the reason is that they don't deserve it. If you can't even own in public you like someone, you deserve to stay unhappy!

Such people are out there and trust me, you are better off such trash. I would want my guy or girl friend or love interest to stand by me and if someone says, "What's cooking?" they have the guts to say "Whatever is cooking, is not for you to share. ;p".

I know that lust and attraction are things that we don't have any control on but trust me when I say that we can open our eyes and at least stop ourselves from jumping in that stupid pit of attraction that has a set button for destruction.

Just know that attraction is a fatal flaw and at the end of the day, if you are attracted to someone, make sure that they are worth your time.

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