Choice A or B?

I was asked this the other day, "Can love happen with two people at the same time?" and I thought for a second, "Yes! It has happened with me like a zillion times." but then I thought, "Nah! It wasn't really love but lust."
Here's the thing, if you love someone truly, how can you fall in love with someone else? You wanna give excuses like, "It was in the moment." or "I don't know how it happened." or "Time drifted us apart, but he's my first love, how to choose?" why don't you get it, maybe the expiry date has arrived. Everything has an expiry date. So what? Be brave to accept it. The era of first love, Romeo Juliet or something equally lovey dovey has gone away, long back. You don't have to loose anything.
Do what makes you happy because that's what that matters. Why be sad and make other's lives more chaotic when you can keep it simple. 
You wanna know how to know which one's the right one? Just check yourself out when you are around that person: Does he make you laugh? Is his presence enough to make your day? A chat with him changes your mood for good? Is he your best friend too? I mean you can never be in love until and unless you are good friends first.
At last, lemme tell you this that if you ever loved the first one, you wouldn't have fallen for the second one. So, ALWAYS go for the second one.

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