How to just let it go?

"I love him, even though he makes me feel like I am a drag in his life. Like I don't matter. But with time he will treat me better, right?"
The blunt answer to that my love is, NO WAY IN HELL IS THAT EVER GONNA HAPPEN!
I have heard versions of this, now and again and still no one can handle the path to get rid of it. It's simple...Just Let it go!
I know it hurts like a b*tch, but it's about time you let it all go. No matter how bad it hurts or how bad you feel, it’s time to stop thinking about that person who played with your feelings, who took your love for granted, who never appreciated your care, who wasn’t contented with what you could give him or her. You can’t stay at that hurtful place anymore.
You can’t keep shedding tears over someone who doesn't deserve the love you gave. You can’t keep feeling sorry for yourself and thinking if only you did more, if only time will get you two there. Not happening sister. You can’t make them want the relationship because if they wanted they wouldn’t have let go of you.Staying single is better than in a sh*tty relationship. I have been in and out of those too, and wished I'd rather be with the one, who is not all of this.
You too, deserve better. You deserve someone who appreciates you and who won’t play with your delicate heart.. Just like a cut on your hand will take time to heal, your broken heart needs time to heal as well. That’s not the end of your life. You will get over it eventually and that pain you’re having right now and one day you’ll be happy again.
If you’re laying in bed wrapped up in sheets of miserable thoughts, go to sleep.If thumbing through old messages only causes your heart to ache and long for something unattainable, erase them.
If it hurts to keep everything you’re feeling bottled up inside, let it out.
If you’re clinging onto someone who doesn't treat you like you’re worth the world, Let them go. Because sometimes we choose to believe that things are only indistinguishable shades of gray when in reality, Life is more black and white than it seems.
If you’re unhappy, with the way you are being treated by your someone special, LET IT GO DAMMIT! Trust me, you are worth more than all of that.
Either that or you can try getting drunk and calling them and professing your love to them, but it doesn't really pan out coz you know, been there, done that, dumped him and all of that!

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