Expectation v/s Reality

We have grown up watching all these romantic stuff which has led us to believe that all men can understand what we are saying.....Well, BULLSHIT!
We are being brainwashed. There is no such thing as a man understanding anything except what you say. Recently, I saw this video on youtube and there was this chick, who was doing the video, "The perfect man", and man! what she said, actually touched me. 
One of my favorite scene went something like this...

Girl: I am fine.
What the girl thinks that the guy is hearing: I am so not fine. I want you to ask me whatz wrong babe. I want you to hug me, kiss me and get me a chocolate ice-cream. And also cuddle and say nice things about me and beat the pig up who made my day a living hell.
What the guy actually hears: I am fine.

Men don't really get women brain or logic. And as the saying goes, Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus, it may not be true but the thing is that they do have different reasoning standards.
Whilst men are straight forward about how they feel, women encrypt their feeling to see if the guy they love is the true one or not.
But lemme tell you my galz...men are kind of dumb when it comes to understanding women. So, be patient and either be straight forward about how you feel or train the dog.
And to any of the men reading my blog, guyz...you wanna get a girl? Please be sure to listen to what they are actually trying to say. It's not rocket science to understand women. And don't eva be mean to a girl coz you have no idea how long a thing  you said can stay in a girl's head. The shortest time period is...FOREVER.
All the guys n gals reading this, please don't dwell in the movie world, for it is so not real. Your true prince charming isn't gonna come riding a white horse or an audi, but he'll be the guy who'll be there for you in your times of need. He won't be Mr. Right or Mr. Perfect coz such a man is a myth. He won't always look like a Hollywood hero but he'll be your hero.
Reality might be a b*tch but expectations hurt more when the real world hits you in the head. After all, we have to face reality at one point or another.
So, leave your expectations out and try to give that 'around the corner' guy a chance to stay.

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