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How to just let it go?

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"I love him, even though he makes me feel like I am a drag in his life. Like I don't matter. But with time he will treat me better, right?" The blunt answer to that my love is, NO WAY IN HELL IS THAT EVER GONNA HAPPEN! I have heard versions of this, now and again and still no one can handle the path to get rid of it. It's simple...Just Let it go! I know it hurts like a b*tch, but it's about time you let it all go. No matter how bad it hurts or how bad you feel, it’s time to stop thinking about that person who played with your feelings, who took your love for granted, who never appreciated your care, who wasn’t contented with what you could give him or her. You can’t stay at that hurtful place anymore. You can’t keep shedding tears over someone who doesn't deserve the love you gave. You can’t keep feeling sorry for yourself and thinking if only you did more, if only time will get you two there. Not happening sister. You can’t make them want the r...

Ego, Vanity, Pride are the perfect recipe for disaster

Sometimes people get carried away in their ego and hypocrisy and tend to forget what their true selves are and end up becoming those hideous monsters that even they don’t deserve to be. This is a very serious disease that they need to cure themselves of, considering they have a tad bit of humanity left inside of them.  This ego, generally develops in people because of the support of those around them who guide them in the wrong direction and back them up when they should be correcting them. And to top it off, these people are called best friends with the wrong intent. You cannot become great by downsizing the other person. That makes you the villain in the story and a guy once told me, that if you are not the hero of your story, well then there is no point in living that story or your life for that matter. Self-obsession is often a development of negligence by other people that leads a person to non-sucidal self-protective mode, where that person starts compleme...

New Year's Time

It's that time of the year again. New beginnings, resolutions and everything? Bullsh*t! Nothing changes suddenly. You gotta believe in yourself. Don't rely on something as just another day to change things. Don't make resolutions that you know won't happen. Be a realist. Set goals that you will be able to complete. Even if it means getting up 5 minutes early. Be yourself. Set yourself free. Take a break from all the prejudiced bullsh*t. Don't let others and their notions guide you. Make yourself a new person but on your own terms. Let it go and to your life, give a go... And don't forget to have  a happy happy and happy new year.

Fake Haters and Judgmental B*tches: They are everywhere

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"OMG! Look at them, playing basketball on the same court as boys!"    A simple statement, really, but the meaning is way deeper than meets the eye and the fundamentals of the mentality are heinous. Why can't a girl go out and be what she wants to be? Gender equality, huh? It's all talks and theory but no practical implementation.  To be honest, it's not just about girls, guys are equally slammed by this 'Why are you being like that' thing, maybe even worse than girls....nah, kidding! Girls have to be picture perfect all the time. Beat that! So, why hating and judging? Why decide how one should be? Who the hell gives you the right for that? Are you perfect enough to be commenting on others? Lemme get this straight, I can't really tolerate haters and judgmental pieces of sh*t. The worst part? They are everywhere. I mean if you really are a somebody, you don't really get the time to say sh*t about others because you know what it takes ...

Bullet for Bullet is the right policy?

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You hit me, I hit you harder!! It's said, what you sow, so shall you reap, i.e. you'll only get what you work for. But is it correct? If you do something by accident, does it still accounts for punishment? A wise man once said, "If we went on an eye for an eye, the whole world will be half blind." Bullet for bullet is never the right tact....but forgiveness is. If you can have it in your heart to forgive someone then only, you can move on, else the regret or the guilt will eventually catch up with you one day. It is said that the one who goes out on taking revenge, should always dig two graves...one for the enemy and one for self. So, it's up to you, whether you want a free mind or a pit of death? I'll end with a joke which I read a few days back: If in a room there was Osama Bin Laden, Hitler and you and I had only two bullets.....I'll shoot you twice. ;) But remember...if you are on the kill.....never leave a witness ali...

Fantasy World or Diffidence:Whats your poison?

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Problems and Scary Situations! Who doesn't have them? But, sometimes people just refuse to accept the reality. It's like they don't see it the way others do. Things that are logically wrong for us, might be just a joke for them. Or maybe they are just avoiding to face it all, altogether? So, I think that there are two probable reasons for that: either they are the dwellers of fantasy world or they have an inferior complex or lack of confidence that makes them fake delusional a.k.a. afraid to own it. I think, sometimes it's so difficult to accept reality that people start imagining different scenarios of how things went down and stick to it, or sometimes they know that they are wrong but the fact that their image would be shunned keeps them from accepting their fault. But, isn't it wrong on other people? I guess, I just feel so irritated by this. I mean, "Yeah! I saw what you did there, but I am not telling it to everyone, thinking maybe you'll realiz...

Living the Lie

This is a poem I wrote in my Micro Processor Lab as I was bored and it kinda fit seemingly on a friend of mine. Thought I'd share:- For her and you. Living The Lie Loving you hurts, it was a mistake I know, for what it was worth, I don't know how to show, Even when I fell hard, my heart was broken. Even then my head was barred,  from hating you. How stupid I am, Living in the fantasy world, even when I know, you are no longer here, You never were, You never will, You never can be.... So, I am living the lie, Living the lie, of 'No Broken Dreams' So, I am living the lie, Living the lie, of Happy Dreams. I know it hurts, but of what is was worth, I can not live in reality. I am denying, of all the times, when I have cried, till I fell asleep. So, I am living the lie, Living the lie till I no longer weep, So I am living the lie, Living the lie till I am ready to move on. You are no more here, y...