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How to deal with people who talk trash about you?

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"People will talk trash, it is after all their job" I get it! People like to talk nonsense behind your back and sometimes, when you are lucky(Yes, lucky), you get to hear it for yourself. It hurts, but before you go throw yourself in this cycle of: 1. Denial:  "How could that b*tch say this about me?" *confused tone 2. Anger: "HOW COULD THAT B*TCH SAY THIS ABOUT ME?"    *angry tone 3. Bargaining: "How could that b*tch say this about me?"   *bargaining tone 4. Depression: "How could that b*tch say this about me?"   *depressed tone 5. Acceptance: "Maybe they are right." I want you to think that they might be right, so what? Is everybody on planet earth perfect? Last time I checked (just checked), the answer is NO. Everybody is fighting their own battles and maybe this is their way of overcoming their shortcomings, by taking trash about you. Know this, it is their right to it and you can do it too. Cool, right? ...