Random Things

"I love him, even though he makes me feel like I am a drag in his life. Like I don't matter. But with time he will treat me better, right?" The blunt answer to that my love is, NO WAY IN HELL IS THAT EVER GONNA HAPPEN! I have heard versions of this, now and again and still no one can handle the path to get rid of it. It's simple...Just Let it go! I know it hurts like a b*tch, but it's about time you let it all go. No matter how bad it hurts or how bad you feel, it’s time to stop thinking about that person who played with your feelings, who took your love for granted, who never appreciated your care, who wasn’t contented with what you could give him or her. You can’t stay at that hurtful place anymore. You can’t keep shedding tears over someone who doesn't deserve the love you gave. You can’t keep feeling sorry for yourself and thinking if only you did more, if only time will get you two there. Not happening sister. You can’t make them want the r...

Sometimes people get carried away in their ego and hypocrisy and tend to forget what their true selves are and end up becoming those hideous monsters that even they don’t deserve to be. This is a very serious disease that they need to cure themselves of, considering they have a tad bit of humanity left inside of them.  This ego, generally develops in people because of the support of those around them who guide them in the wrong direction and back them up when they should be correcting them. And to top it off, these people are called best friends with the wrong intent. You cannot become great by downsizing the other person. That makes you the villain in the story and a guy once told me, that if you are not the hero of your story, well then there is no point in living that story or your life for that matter. Self-obsession is often a development of negligence by other people that leads a person to non-sucidal self-protective mode, where that person starts compleme...